The Nightlamp journal
Notes on the practice.
Field notes, guides, and the thinking behind Nightlamp.
Latest · 6 min read
What Should Kids Eat Before Bed? The Bedtime Snack That Helps Them Sleep (and the Ones That Backfire)
The right bedtime snack for kids can smooth the path to sleep — the wrong one quietly sabotages it. What the science says to serve, what to skip, and when.
Read the article →
More from the journal
- 02
The Best Night Light Color for Kids: Why the Wrong Glow Quietly Sabotages Their Sleep
The best night light color for kids isn't white or blue — it's warm and dim. Here's how the wrong glow suppresses melatonin, and the fix that takes five minutes.
2026-07-12
6 min read
- 03
Melatonin for Kids: What Parents Should Know Before Reaching for the Gummies
Melatonin for kids isn't the sleep aid most parents think it is. What the science says about the gummies, the timing, and what actually helps a child fall asleep.
2026-07-11
7 min read
- 04
How to Keep Your Child's Sleep Schedule on Vacation: Why the Routine Travels Better Than the Clock
Struggling to keep your child's sleep schedule on vacation? The first-night effect explains the hotel meltdown — and why familiar cues beat the clock.
2026-07-11
7 min read
- 05
Bedtime Routine Chart for Kids: How a Simple Checklist Ends the Nightly Nagging
A bedtime routine chart for kids works because it moves the routine out of your voice and onto the wall. The real psychology of why checklists end the nagging.
2026-07-11
6 min read
- 06
What to Say to Your Child at Bedtime: Why the Last Five Minutes Define Their Whole Day
Knowing what to say to your child at bedtime matters more than you think: memory science shows the final minutes of the day quietly rewrite everything that came before it.
2026-07-10
7 min read
- 07
Weekend Bedtimes and Monday Meltdowns: How Social Jetlag Steals Your Child's Week
Late weekend bedtimes for kids create social jetlag — a Monday morning that feels like a time-zone change. Here's the fix that protects the whole week.
2026-07-09
7 min read
- 08
How to Stop Bedtime Power Struggles: Why Your Child Is Fighting for Control, Not Sleep
Most bedtime power struggles aren't about sleep — they're about autonomy. Here's the psychology of why kids resist, and how giving control back ends the fight.
2026-07-09
7 min read
- 09
How to Move Your Child's Bedtime Earlier: The Gradual Shift That Actually Works
How to move your child's bedtime earlier without the fight: why an earlier lights-out backfires, the wake maintenance zone, and the 15-minute shift that works.
2026-07-09
7 min read
- 10
Why Active Kids Fall Asleep Faster: How Daytime Play Builds Your Child's Sleep Pressure
Wondering why an active child falls asleep faster? Learn how daytime play builds sleep pressure through adenosine, and how to use it for an easier bedtime.
2026-07-08
6 min read
- 11
Is My Child Napping Too Late? How an Afternoon Nap Steals Their Bedtime
If your child naps late and then fights sleep at night, here's the science: a late nap affecting bedtime drains the sleep pressure their body needs to drift off.
2026-07-08
6 min read
- 12
The Best Room Temperature for a Child to Sleep: Why a Cooler Bedroom Helps Kids Settle
The best room temperature for a child to sleep is cooler than most parents think. Here's the body-heat science behind why a slightly cool bedroom helps kids fall and stay asleep.
2026-07-07
6 min read
- 13
How Long Should It Take a Child to Fall Asleep? What Sleep-Onset Time Reveals About Their Bedtime
How long should it take a child to fall asleep? A normal range, what falling asleep instantly (or taking an hour) really signals, and how to read the clock.
2026-07-07
7 min read
- 14
Why Does My Child Wake Up So Early in the Morning? The Sleep Science Behind the Early Riser
Why does my child wake up so early? Often the culprit is a too-late bedtime, not a too-early one. The sleep science behind the 5 a.m. riser—and how to shift it.
2026-07-06
6 min read
- 15
Progressive Muscle Relaxation for Kids: The Bedtime Trick That Melts a Tense Little Body
Progressive muscle relaxation for kids works by squeezing muscles tight, then letting go — teaching a wound-up body how to feel calm so sleep can actually arrive.
2026-07-06
6 min read
- 16
Guided Imagery for Kids at Bedtime: How a Made-Up Journey Quiets a Racing Mind
Guided imagery for kids at bedtime works because a vivid imagined scene crowds out worried thoughts. Here's the science, and how to lead one that actually settles your child.
2026-07-04
6 min read
- 17
Why Your Child's Mind Races at Bedtime: The Open Loops That Keep Kids Awake
If your child's mind races at bedtime, the culprit is often unfinished business, not fear. Here's the psychology of open loops — and a closing ritual that quiets them.
2026-07-03
6 min read
- 18
How to Calm a Child at Bedtime: Why Your Calm Is Contagious
Learning how to calm a child at bedtime starts with your own nervous system. The science of co-regulation explains why a wound-up kid borrows the state of the calmest adult in the room.
2026-07-03
6 min read
- 19
How Much Sleep Does a Child Need by Age? A Parent's Guide to Finding the Right Bedtime
How much sleep does a child need by age? The honest answer is a range, not a single number — here's how to read the science and find your own child's spot within it.
2026-07-03
6 min read
- 20
Night Terrors vs. Nightmares in Kids: How to Tell Which One Woke Your Child
Night terrors vs nightmares in kids: how to tell them apart by the clock, why terrors look scarier than they are, and what actually helps each one.
2026-07-02
6 min read
- 21
Why Kids Sleep Better With a Comfort Object: The Psychology of the Bedtime Lovey
Why does your child cling to one stuffed animal at bedtime? The psychology of comfort objects—how a lovey helps kids self-soothe and bridge the separation of sleep.
2026-06-27
7 min read
- 22
Why an Overtired Child Can't Fall Asleep: The Cortisol Paradox Behind the Bedtime Meltdown
Wondering why your overtired child can't fall asleep and gets more wired instead? Learn how missing the sleep window raises cortisol — and how to catch it.
2026-06-27
7 min read
- 23
Why a Consistent Bedtime Matters for Kids: How a Regular Sleep Schedule Sets the Body Clock
A consistent bedtime for kids does more than end the day on time — it trains the body clock so sleep comes easily. Here's the science of why the same time matters.
2026-06-27
7 min read
- 24
Why Kids Wake Up in the Middle of the Night — and How to Help Them Settle Back Down
Why kids wake up in the middle of the night isn't a flaw — it's normal sleep architecture. Learn how brief arousals work and how to help a child fall back asleep alone.
2026-06-26
7 min read
- 25
Why Kids Get Anxious at Bedtime: How to Quiet a Worried Mind Before Sleep
Bedtime anxiety in children isn't stalling — it's the day's worries surfacing in the first quiet moment. Here's the science of why, and how to help.
2026-06-26
6 min read
- 26
Why Screen Time Before Bed Keeps Kids Awake: How Light Delays a Child's Melatonin
Screen time before bed for kids does more than overstimulate — evening light suppresses melatonin, and children's eyes absorb more of it than adults'. Here's the science and the fix.
2026-06-24
7 min read
- 27
Sleep Sounds for Kids: Why the Right Background Noise Helps Them Sleep Through the Night
Sleep sounds for kids work by masking the sudden noises that wake them between sleep cycles. Here's the science of why steady background sound helps kids sleep through the night.
2026-06-23
7 min read
- 28
How to Stop Bedtime Stalling: Why Your Child Keeps Getting Out of Bed
How to stop bedtime stalling for kids ages 4-9: the science behind curtain calls, why one more drink of water never ends, and the bedtime pass that breaks the loop.
2026-06-23
7 min read
- 29
Why a Warm Bath Helps Kids Fall Asleep: The Body-Temperature Drop That Cues Sleep
Why a warm bath helps kids fall asleep comes down to one overlooked mechanism: the core body-temperature drop that triggers sleep onset. Here's how to use it.
2026-06-22
6 min read
- 30
How Bedtime Stories Help Kids Fall Asleep: The Science of Winding Down a Busy Mind
How bedtime stories help kids fall asleep — the real science of how a simple narrative quiets a racing mind, eases nighttime worry, and signals the brain it's safe to let go.
2026-06-22
6 min read
- 31
Breathing Exercises for Kids to Fall Asleep: Why the Long Exhale Works
Breathing exercises for kids to fall asleep work because of one quiet mechanism: a longer exhale tells the nervous system the day is over. Here's the science.
2026-06-22
6 min read
- 32
Why Kids Are Afraid of the Dark — and How to Help Them Feel Safe at Bedtime
Why kids are afraid of the dark isn't a phase to wait out — it's a developing brain doing its job. Here's what fear needs to shrink, and how to give it.
2026-06-21
7 min read
- 33
How to Teach a Child to Fall Asleep on Their Own (Without the Bedtime Battle)
How to teach a child to fall asleep on their own using sleep-onset associations—the quiet science of why kids who drift off solo also sleep through the night.
2026-06-19
6 min read
- 34
Why Your Child Gets a Second Wind at Bedtime (and How to Stop It)
Why kids get a second wind at bedtime—the overtired cortisol surge explained—plus how to catch the real sleep window before it slams shut and the wired phase begins.
2026-06-16
7 min read
- 35
Bedtime Routine for Kids Who Won't Fall Asleep: Why Sameness Beats Novelty
A bedtime routine for kids who won't fall asleep works through predictability, not novelty. Here's the sleep science behind why the same sequence settles a child.
2026-06-12
7 min read